For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. - 1 Timothy 6:10 (KJV)The Love of Money
The love of money is referred to as avarice. While some people and even some dictionaries are hesitant to make a large distinction between "greed" and "avarice," it would be wise to note the very important differences between the two words. You can have greed for any type of thing - avarice has a distinct and specific interpretation that should always refer to the love of money, treasures, and/or valuables - types of things where their only purpose is to augment one's wealth. While food may be very valuable to someone, that would fall under the jurisdiction of greed, not avarice.
It makes sense that the two words would seem almost interchangeable due to the roots and etymology of the word avarice. It does indeed come from the word greed or covetousness, but if it were not necessary to make a distinction between greed and avarice, the distinction wouldn't have been made. This "Catholic encyclopedia" summarizes what is meant by avarice:
Its special malice, broadly speaking, lies in that it makes the getting and keeping of money, possessions, and the like, a purpose in itself to live for. ... It is more to be dreaded in that it often cloaks itself as a virtue, or insinuates itself under the pretext of making a decent provision for the future.This highlights the biggest problem with avarice: it can be difficult to detect. There is a distinction to be made between the reality that money and valuables are not inherently bad to possess or to acquire and the actual problems with a love of money. If it would help to bring clarity to the problem, it is not merely an appreciation or utilization of money, but the love of, or perhaps obsession with, money.
We can bring further clarification onto the subject at hand by a brief discussion on false idols.
Idolatry
Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. - Colossians 3:5 (ESV)The second commandment in the old testament is to have no idols before our Lord. It is mentioned much more often throughout both the old and new testaments. For the secular non-believer, this may seem completely inconsequential, but unfortunately it causes just as many problems for the secular as it does for the believer. Just because you don't believe in God doesn't mean you're magically exempt from all the problems that come from this broken world.
Idolatry is the worship of something as the ultimate something, when in reality that something does not contain properties worthy of worship. The reason why God is proclaimed as the only one worthy of worship is because He is perfect - all other things are imperfect, and thus do not warrant worship. This is not to say you cannot like those things, but to worship something imperfect is folly. It is folly for both the religious and for the non-religious.
When you worship a fallible, imperfect source, you put your trust, faith, happiness, and security in that thing. Given that that thing is imperfect, as all things are, you are essentially putting all your eggs into one basket - one basket that may fray, break, or rot away.
Now, you may say, well of course I don't worship anything!
Worship
Unfortunately, everyone worships something. Many people worship their own selves, as we see in many of the hedonistic materialist and humanist sects, or science, as we see in Darwinists and naturalists, but a large number of secular people actually worship money. We are naturally draw to worship something. As I said, just because you don't believe in God, doesn't change the reality of the world you're living in. We were created to worship God - when you deny Him and choose not to worship Him, you are naturally drawn to worship something else.
Of course, if you don't believe that, you may still be inclined to say that I'm talking nonsense. The disconnect that happens here is between what you believe is implied by the word "worship" and what it truly means to worship something.
To worship something is, as I stated earlier, to "put your trust, faith, happiness, and security in that thing." People all do this - whether you want to identify the thing you are doing as "worship" or not, that is what worship is and that is what you are doing. You consider this thing to be the thing - the thing that will make you happy, that will fulfill your hopes and dreams, keep you safe and will never let you down. We all seek something that will answer all our questions, that will keep us secure, safe, and happy - when you dismiss God from that list of options, you will make a new list and pick something else. If you take the time to think about what it is that you put your hope and faith into and decide that it's nothing, then surprise, it's probably yourself. The worship of the self is still worship, and it is still idolatry - and it will still disappoint you.
To summarize, the problem with idolatry is that all things besides God are finite, flawed, and imperfect. All things will disappoint you, and thus it is unwise to put your faith, trust, happiness, and security into those things. Even if you do not believe in God, this reality stays consistent - all things are imperfect. There are no perfect things in this broken world, so it is folly to put your trust into any of these worldly things.
Avarice as a Narrative
Avarice is closely tied to idolatry - with a lack of God in their lives, many people end up worshiping wealth. It is, unfortunately, heavily pushed onto people today. Go to college and be successful so you can make money, get a good job so you can make money, don't get married - focus on your career and make money, don't do something you love just get a high paying job because money, if you're not making money you won't be happy, we need to let poor women have access to abortion because if not their kids will be poor. The new sin of our age - being poor. Bad enough that you would be better off having not been born, than to be poor.
If you don't see it you aren't paying attention. Avarice is being pushed as a virtue - as mentioned earlier, this is where avarice's power lies, in the ability to mask itself as merely making good decisions, to be prepared for the future, to be secure, to be happy...
There are right and wrong ways to deal with money. It is okay to make money, it's okay to have a good job, it's okay to be wealthy. It's what's in your heart - the way you view money and what you believe it has the power to do.
I've known people who made far and above the amount of money my family did who were still struggling with bills, in debt, and complaining about money. I still currently know some of those people. The way you utilize your money is as important as how much you have. Living paycheck to paycheck and having to decide which bills are more important is certainly not an easy-going situation, but when you stop to consider how people with multiple times more money than you are still miserable, it should really make you stop to think. More money didn't make them happier.
We all like to think we'd be happier and better off with just a little more money. If we made just such and such more money, it would all be fine and we'd be good to go. It turns out, once you get there, you still have the same mindset. The more money you make you will always believe that you'd be better off if you just made a little more. Just a little more money, and I'll finally be happy.
This is all due to the folly of the worship of money. Money is a finite source - which means that it can run out, but it also means, much more simply, that the quantity of money available in your life - the quantity of the thing that you've placed all your trust and security into - can fluctuate. It can go up and it can go down. Any source that is not God is finite - the quantity of that source can fluctuate. You will always have as much God as you need - He is an infinite source. The finite source of money is quantifiable - and you just know you'd be so much happier if you had just 200 more of it. Just 500 more of it. Just 10,000 more of it.
This mindset of "just a little more" is the worship of money. Until you break out of it, you are placing your faith in money, and it will always disappoint you.
The Church of Money
It gets worse, though. The worship of money has been pushed very heavily and has a strong following. The Church of Money has started to preach that our intrinsic value as a person is directly tied to how much money we make. The value of our choices, our behaviors, and our careers are directly tied to the amount of money that they bring us. Actions, behaviors, and tasks performed by us are meaningless if we are not compensated for them.
Something that is being pushed, perhaps not only recently but I've only seen it within the last few years, is the injustice of people not being paid for literally every thing that they do. From taking care of your own children to smiling and interacting with other humans, the dominate narrative is pushing the idea that we are performing unpaid labor and that any and all actions and interactions cannot be justified if they are not compensated. When someone makes less money, it is not merely an injustice, but that person is devalued. Not the person's work, or the person's effort, or their knowledge or experience, but the person is said to be devalued when they are not compensated - they are not being paid (despite a complete lack of a contractual agreement to perform labor), thus they are not appreciated as people. The failure to distinguish between these two ideas is not an accident and this narrative is incredibly harmful.
The vast majority of this harmful narrative is pushed upon women. I apologize as I'm unable to find the actual article, but awhile back I noticed some buzz about a study which seemed to show that married women earned less money than unmarried women, and included the stats that married lesbian couples also earned more money than married women who were married to men. The reasons for this supposed gap and the study itself are less important than the reactions I saw from women who were discussing the study. The common theme I noticed was women proclaiming that "men make your life worth less".
The word choice here is as important as the message it is meant to convey. They could have chosen to say perhaps that men make you earn less money or that they push women out of the workforce or the like, but they chose the word life. Men make your life worth less... because of the amount of money being made. They directly tied the worth of the woman's life to the amount of money that she brought in. When it could be said that a woman was earning less money "because of" a man, they purposefully chose to articulate a sentence which explicitly denotes the idea that it made the woman's life worth less.
Because of money.
If the implications here aren't obvious enough, not only is money being worshiped in this scenario, but human lives are being rated as better or worse for the amount of money that they produce or possess. We have entered a territory wherein not only is money worshiped, but people who do not have it, do not want it, do not make it, or do not worship it are being literally dehumanized. The focus could easily have been placed on the person's work or efforts, but it was purposefully structured to emphasize the person's worth. We are being instructed to believe that a person who is paid less is worth less.
While I could see the connection being made between the idea that if someone is indeed paying someone less or not paying them at all, then that person does not view the underpaid or unpaid person as valuable, but we are not witnessing this distinction being made - we are being told that that person is in fact less valuable for making less money, not just to the employer, but to everyone. We are being told that they can only be made valuable again if they are paid more money. The only salvation so to speak for that person lies in them being able to produce and acquire larger amounts of money. The perhaps injustices of being paid less or not paid are purposefully warped and twisted into a narrative that allows people to be convinced that they, individually as humans, are not worth as much if they are not paid more.
It is unfortunately a subtle distinction that is easily slipped in without notice - the lack of a distinction between the value of the person and the value of the person's efforts is not difficult to get away with, as we see, but it is an overwhelmingly important distinction to make. When we thoughtlessly allow ourselves to use language that explicitly ties a person's value to the money that they make, we allow ourselves to push money and the importance of money further and further into the forefront, whether consciously or subconsciously. This has all along been about the worship of money.
Emotional Labor and Caregiver Labor
Two notable topics wedged deep into the unpaid labor narrative are "emotional labor" and "caregiver labor." While the latter is related to many paid positions, such as child care/daycares and nursing homes, what it refers to in this context is "unpaid caregiver labor," summarized as perhaps "being a housewife," or taking care of an elderly parent. Emotional labor refers to the actions of responding to and interacting with other human beings, such as in a customer service, food service, or retail position. The idea behind these two topics is that there are millions of people not being paid for work they are doing - and again, this narrative tries very hard to target women.
Emotional labor is oftentimes actually paid for - if you do work in a customer service position, your ability to interact pleasantly with even the most rotten of people is very valuable to the work you do. Realistically, people who are better at this sort of "emotional labor" will be ideal for these positions and paid accordingly. Emotional labor, in these positions, is actually a job requirement and expectation.
The problem with the concept of "emotional labor" as it is pushed today is that interacting with people is something we all must do literally all of the time, forever. This is an important note to make here: "emotional labor" is referring to a person's efforts involved in interacting with people, for example, making eye contact, being polite, smiling, making an effort not to be rude, thinking about how your behaviors affect and influence other people, being considerate, etc., i.e. emotional labor can be summarized as "making an effort to be a good person to other people in day to day interactions."
The idea behind unpaid emotional labor is that people all over the workforce and in their day to day lives are not being compensated for their emotional labor, or as we defined it, "making an effort to be a good person to other people in day to day interactions." What we see here, then, is that people are making the distinction that being friendly or hospitable to other people is not worth doing unless they are being paid for it. This is bizarrely used to justify being rude to people because they are not paying you. While this may not be a mainstream idea at the moment, I have seen it more than once.
While before we saw the devaluation of the person for lack of compensation, we see the same theme - the devaluation of friendliness, hospitality, and civility due to lack of compensation. The narrative is now pushing that it is not valuable to be bearable to be around unless you are being paid for it. If no one is writing you a check for smiling, then you should not. It's not worth it. This is part of a narrative where nothing is worth doing unless you are being compensated for it. It is not worth it to even smile at someone unless there is money involved.
The dangers of this narrative should be clear as well. We are all taught how to interact with others from the first days that we are able to speak. These "social skills" have for literally ever simply been a part of life that we understood to be important in order to interact with other people. We are now being taught that you should be paid for your social skills - not just in job positions which literally do require them, but all the time. If you don't feel like not being insufferable, then it is totally okay unless someone whips out their checkbook and writes you an emotional labor check! Go ahead and be a rude customer, curse out the guy on the phone, push someone out of their seat on the bus, no one is paying you to not do these things.
To attempt to instill in people that someone needs to pay you to not be insufferable to be around is effort being made to create a society in which "being friendly" is something we need to pay someone to do. This should be flat out insulting. Has anyone ever offered you money to smile at them? Imagine how outright creepy that would be - but this is the reality of the narrative of unpaid emotional labor. Furthermore, I would implore that anyone who would be happy to smile at someone for being handed a fiver needs to sit down and think about their life.
The ideas of unpaid caregiver labor follow a similar pattern. Unpaid caregiver labor refers to, usually a woman's, maintenance of the home, caring for others, child care, elderly care, and other similar things that we have long been expected to do as a part of our lives and are now being taught that we should be paid for.
The most startling aspect of this narrative is, or if it isn't it very much should be, the idea that taking care of one's own children is unpaid labor - and that mothers should be compensated for this. If you believe that taking care of your own children is not valuable unless you are being paid for it, I would implore that you do not have children. If you already have children, hopefully I can outline why this mindset is dangerous and outrageously selfish.
We'll start with the basics: as before, we are seeing that something we have always been expected to do is now not worth the effort unless we are being compensated for it. Like being a good person in your day to day interactions, taking care of your home and your children is something that is a part of living in this world and living your life. The idea is that this work is important and valuable, so it should be compensated. The opposite of this idea is that if you are not being paid to take care of your children, then it is okay to not feed them, leave them in a hot car, or lock them out of the house at night.
First, a little logical reality about paid labor: jobs do not exist necessarily. The entire purpose of someone hiring someone to do something is because they have a need and are looking to have someone else fill this need. In order to provide a reason for this person to provide this need, the person looking for someone to hire must provide some sort of compensation. No one needs you to clean your house. No one needs you to take care of your own children. No one needs you to take care of yourself, your pets, your elderly parents, or anything else that you need you to do. You are the person who has the need - this means that either you pay someone else to do it, or you do it. That is how paid labor works.
Let me put it this way. If I want to build something or perform maintenance on something, i.e. if I have a need, I do not go out and find someone to pay me for myself to fulfill my need. There are only two options: I fulfill my need on my own, or I pay someone else to fulfill my need. I do not get paid to fulfill my own needs. If I do not want to pay someone to build a barn, I must do it myself. I do not go looking for someone and say, "I have a proposition for you, I'm going to build myself a barn and I need someone to pay me to build it." That is nonsense.
If I need my house cleaned, my only options are to pay someone else or to do it myself. There is no one out there looking to hire me to take care of my own house. If I want to have children and raise them, that is my own need and the only two options to fulfill those needs, again, are to pay someone else or do it myself. Just like if someone else wants to have someone look after their children, they either pay you (or someone) or do it themselves.
The danger of this narrative comes through quite clearly in relation to child care as brought up earlier. You are putting together a situation in which it is not worth it to take care of your own children unless you are being paid for it. The devaluation of children is not unique to this narrative and it is not new to the dominate narrative, and this is just another way in which it's being pushed.
The main idea behind unpaid caregiver labor is that caregiving is important, and important things should be compensated. The problem again arises from the worship of money - that something is only being valued if there is money to be made in it. Let me make a clear example of something else that could be considered pretty important.
Charitable work is unpaid. It is explicitly unpaid because the people requiring this charity are unable to provide any compensation. When we perform charitable work for the poor, the hungry, the homeless, the disabled, or the otherwise downtrodden people of the world, not only are we explicitly not paid, but we typically must use our own funds in order to perform this work. When we feed the hungry, we provide the food; when we clothe the naked, we provide the clothes; when we shelter the homeless, we provide the shelter. This work is incredibly valuable, it is incredibly appreciated, and it is incredibly important. It is also incredibly unpaid.
Yes, caregiving is important. Raising good children and caring for them is vastly important - but to attempt to insist that this work must be paid to be valuable is to devalue your own work. You, yourself, if you are of this mindset, are putting yourself into a position to devalue your own efforts because you believe that they are not worth the time if you aren't seeing a paycheck. If you believe it is not worth the time to clean your own house unless you're being paid, you are devaluing your own home. If you believe it is not worth the time to care for your elderly parents if you aren't being paid, you are devaluing your parents. By allowing yourself to buy into this narrative, it is not just the dominate culture that is telling you what is or is not important, but you trick yourself into devaluing your own effort.
To believe that something is not valuable if it does not produce money is harmful to your own life and your own happiness. It is a form of avarice and a form of idol worship. It is not wrong to be paid for the things you do, but it is wrong to believe that things are not worth doing unless you are paid for them.